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The
LifeWork Renewal Program
The LifeWork Renewal program
revolves around six exploratory categories. Using
hands-on activities, inventories, readings, visuals, and
discussion, your transitions facilitator will walk you through
each:
- A.
Transition Realities--confronting the
changes ahead and how you feel about them.
- B.
Defining Transitions--outlining what a
successful transition means for you.
- C.
Self Discovery--finding affirmation,
self-awareness, and a sense of accomplishment.
- D.
Transition Activities--managing time and
staying fresh, creative, and active.
- E.
Alignment--maching your next opportunity to
your values, goals, and your sense of who you are.
- F.
Socialization--growing through transitions
with your spouse, family, and friends.
Program
Components
The LifeWork Renewal program is a directed
change process that consists of three essential components:
Issue Clarification, Discovery, Plan
Building.
I. Issue
Clarification.
Listed below are areas of concern that will help identify
the key issue(s) that you want to resolve in your life.
Clarifying the issue(s) will focus your attention and energy
and help you sort them through. Place a check mark next to the
areas that you wish to address.
Career, Re-careering and Good
Work
___ Work opportunities that will bring greater
satisfaction
___ Ways to use your most fulfilling abilities and
gifts
___ Self employment
Retirement, Pre-Retirement,
Refinement, and Renewal
___ Qualities of a successful retirement
___ Early retirement
___ Semi-retirement for life
___ Life in retirement that will be energized and
fulfilling
___ Intellectual growth in retirement
Personal
Development
___ Purpose in your life
___ Vision for your future
___ Values that drive your future
___ Ways to identify and use your gifts and talents
___ Change, loss and grief
___ Physical and emotional health
Lifestyle
___ A lifestyle that aligns with your sense of purpose
___ A lifestyle that has more balance
___ A plan that will turn your dreams into a fulfilling
lifestyle
___ Geographic locations that meet expectations and
lifestyle
___ Empty nest syndrome
___ Travel
___ Life-long learning and volunteer activities
Relationships
___ Relationships with family, friends and colleagues
___ Relationships that enhance and inspire
___ Relationships with common interests
___ Support groups
Spirituality
___ Belief system understanding and expanded
___ Institutions that align with belief system
___ Support systems based on common beliefs
___ Interest in discovering views of other belief
systems
II.
Discovery.
The following ideas are designed to help you
reflect on and discover important information from your past.
Keep the following quote in mind.
"Failure is repeating the same
mistake over and
over again and expecting a different
result."
Anonymous
In other words, learn from:
- Your past, (Oh my goodness, must I really
look there?)
- Your successes, (It’s about time somebody
took a look!)
- Your mistakes, (Do I get a grade?)
- Your talents, (I really have some?)
- Your values, (What difference do they
make?)
- Your previous learning, (When did I stop
learning?)
- Your experiences with change both planned
and unplanned, (Ouch!)
- Your awareness of how change has affected
your life, (Not much, ha, ha!)
- Your wants and needs for the future,
(Yahoo, I get to plan this? I’m excited!)
An internationally recognized author and
lecturer on addiction says:
"Remember, if nothing changes, nothing
changes."
Ernie Larson
The key to your future is to learn from your
success, your ups and downs, the bumps and railroad ties to
the forehead in life. It is your job to decide on the changes
that will bring additional dimension to your life. Develop
your gifts, build on your talents and increase your interests.
That is what life is all about.
It isn’t fancy.
It will be the best gift you can give to
yourself.
It is deeply personal.
Everyone will benefit, especially
YOU
III. Building a Transition
Plan
Now that you have decided to take control of your life,
what are the components that will drive it? To begin, ask
yourself some reflective questions. Discuss your answers with
a friend or significant other. This will help focus what
is important in your life.
How can I balance my life?
Do you want to spend more time with your family, friends,
meeting new people, your spiritual life, personal learning,
physical health, and travel? Does it seem like you are always
strapped for time?
What are my dreams and purpose?
As you were growing up, what kinds of dreams and activities
captured your imagination and energy? Who were the role models
and heroes you admired? Were they committed to something
special or a cause that was worthwhile?
Does my spiritual life serve as a guide during planned and
unplanned
change?
Do you find yourself relying on spiritual guidance
(Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, other) to lead
your through difficulties and crisis? Have you found time for
prayer and/or meditation? Have you taken the time to consult
with mentors and guides who may have helped you form your
spiritual beliefs?
What do I want to change in my life?
What needs to be different? When you have changed in the
past, what has made that change successful? Have your values,
interests, relationships and priorities changed? Remember,
life is a process and change is a fact of life.
What legacy do I want to leave behind?
What do you want to be remembered for in your life, your
last job, with your children and/or friends? What did your
heroes and role models do that made a difference in your life?
Do your want to pass those legacies on to others?
Is personal growth important in your life?
Do you challenge yourself spiritually, physically, and
intellectually? Do you like learning? Do you challenge
yourself to try new experiences, explore different cultures
and lifestyles? Are relationships with others important?
How are you unique?
Are you aware of your accomplishments in life that are the
key to understanding your level of satisfaction? Do you
understanding your gifts, talents, values and beliefs and how
they help you make good decisions?
How do you address difficult issues in your
life?
Do I deal with issues quickly? Do I avoid them, put them
off until later? Would you like to learn how do deal with
issues quickly, without causing high levels of stress by
submerging issues?
How do you take care of yourself on a daily
basis?
Do you do -- meditate, run, work, pray, plan, be
contemplative? Do you give yourself time to renew and energize
yourself?
Do you enjoy life?
Do you laugh on a regular basis? Do you have friends that
share your interests? Is your work enjoyable and fun? Are your
relationships challenging, fulfilling and exciting? Is your
family time energizing?
Who do you turn to for support in difficult
times?
Few people operate totally alone in life. When you need
advice, ideas, or just an ear to listen to you, whom do you
turn to for support? Do you need a coach? Do you have a
mentor? If you leave your community, how will you replace the
support systems that are already in place?
"When you are anxious, alone or
afraid, those are the three surest signs that you are
about to learn something about yourself."
John Brantner,
PhD |

Rationale
It is our belief that
meaningful transitions are built on grasping basic essential
transitional strategies:
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Defining
success
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Reassessing
time
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Identifying your
gifts, motivation, talents, and accomplishments
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Securing your
sources of affirmation, support, soicalization,
spirituality, and creativity.
Outcomes
Below are some
of ways in which you will benefit by praticipating in the
LifeWork Renewal Program:
- You will begin to put
meaningful structure to your thinking about your future life
style.
- You will identify
strategies to achieve your future plans.
- You will take a thorough
inventory of your life goals and plans.
- You will sort through
your anxieties, dreams, hopes, and your personal needs for
the future.
- You will learn to build
workable and available support systems.
Self
Examination
Below is a list of questions you can use to
examine your level of satisfaction with your current life
situation. Use this scale to rate yourself on a scale from
0-10:
0 = Low, not what I want at all, needs immediate
attention.
5 = OK, not quite what I want, but I can live with it for
now.
10 = High, these areas in my life bring stability, growth
and excitement.
_____ 1. Do you have balance in physical, social, spiritual
and work life?
_____ 2. Do you have clear goals and directions in your
life?
_____ 3. Have your career choices fulfilled your dreams and
aspirations?
_____ 4. Do you initiate and enjoy the changes in your
life?
_____ 5. Do you believe your spiritual life is fulfilling,
challenging and growing?
_____ 6. Do you like to learn, discover possibilities and
seek new adventures?
_____ 7. Do your support systems challenge you and accept
your uniqueness?
_____ 8. Do you take time daily to workout, reflect,
journal, meditate and pray?
_____ 9. Do you like to learn from mistakes, allow yourself
the freedom to fail?
_____ 10. Are you having fun in your life?
_____ 11. Are you using your time well?
_____ 12. Are you willing to face difficult issues in your
life and change them?
_____ 13. Are you aware of distressful areas in your life?
Can you reduce it? _____ 14.Are your values in conflict with
your work, social and personal life?
_____ 15. Are you willing to trust your thoughts and
feelings with others?
_____ 16. Do you have support systems that will back you in
times of need?
Identify the Numbers 1-10 that you rated on the 16
questions
From 0-4 _______Number that needs immediate attention and
are high priorities
From 5-8 _______OK, not an immediate concern, but could be
improved upon
From 9-10 ______Anchors that can be used to build and
support my future.
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